TIPS FOR INTROVERS
Introverts often have a more difficult time with social interactions than others. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Just talking with other people can be a challenge for many introverts. It’s no surprise then that the thought of actually talking to someone who might be a future partner can send an introvert into a tailspin.
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Here are a few quick dating tips for the introvert that may help.
1. Fess up.
Don’t pretend to be a social butterfly. There is nothing wrong with being introverted. Tell your date if you are someone who seeks friendship first or needs time to fall in love. You may scare away a few flakes, and instead attract people who will really appreciate you.
2. Meet at places where you feel comfortable.
If you don’t like loud bars, don’t go there. Often introverts are also people-pleasers, and they will do what they think is asked of them even if they suffer. Find a place that makes you feel comfortable: a laid back coffee shop perhaps, or a park.
Also, consider taking your date out for a walk with your dog, or to meet with mutual friends. You’ll at least then have an ally who will be there for you whatever happens.
3. Avoid smooth talkers.
In a relationship, you need to be heard. If your date won’t allow you to get a word in edgewise, it’s not the right person for you.
4. Look for subtle connections.
Sometimes we get so flooded by first impressions and things to look out for, it’s difficult to just feel what it’s like to sit with this person. Do you like being there? Or does it feel crowded, overwhelming, or make you nervous? Make sure you actually enjoy hanging out with your date.
5. Beware of takers.
Introverts are often givers. We listen, pay attention, and want to be there for the other. Make sure you get to be on the receiving end of the equation. If you have to ask repeatedly for romantic gestures or to be included, this is what you sign up for down the road.
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DATİNG ADVİCE 2
It seems as though chat up lines have got themselves a bad reputation over the years. In our upside-down world of dating, where there is no longer any etiquette, chat-up lines have become hugely associated with being ‘hit on’ in a bar or club by undesirable characters (and haven't we all been there?).
The truth is, though, that meeting new people isn’t easy. Approaching new people is even harder. I mean, what do you say? Do you introduce yourself? Do you talk about the weather? See, not that easy.
It’s a common misconception that woman hate chat-up lines, but actually they can prove to be great ice breakers. In fact it has been found that women are more likely to fall for a man if he breaks the ice with a cheesy chat up line. The theory being that women appreciate a man with a sense of humour, and a chat-up is a good way to display that. Having a ‘ballsy’ or confident attitude is also very attractive to the opposite sex. You see, chat-up lines are just a way of grabbing someone's attention and showing them that you like them - in a light-hearted way. And there’s no harm in that, is there?
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Now don’t get me wrong, no one wants to be approached by a complete loser jeering ‘get your coat love, you’ve pulled’. That kind of talk is likely to warrant an unfriendly stare that asks ‘Who are you? How dare you invade my personal space?’, even from some of the most forgiving of people. But used at the right time, in the right way, they can be effective, if not genius.
So we think it's time to make a stand and bring back the good old chat-up line. Not the creepy type that will likely get you slapped, but the fun and cheeky type that will get you talking, if not get you a date. To start the ball rolling we’ve done a little research of our own and found some of the best, the worst, and the down-right cheesiest chat up lines, for you to enjoy. Who knows, you may even want to put some of them into practice…
The good
I lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?
Hi, I'm Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me.
You see my friend over there? He wants to know if you think I'm cute?
The bad
Can I have a picture of you so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas?
Are you a parking ticket, because you have got fine written all over you!
If I had one chance to rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
The cheesy
Did it hurt? When you fell out of heaven.
Do you believe in love at first sight ... or should I walk past again?
The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.
Ok, so even the good ones are more than a little cheesy, but that shouldn’t stop you! Why not pick your favourite and road test it next time you see somebody you like? You might have some rejections (it happens to everyone), you will most definitely have some laughs, but best of all, you might end up starting the one thing you were looking for.
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MOST SPECTACULARLY BAD DATING TIPS
Over the 10+ years I’ve been a dating coach for men, I’ve heard some really incredibly BAD advice. On the surface most of the tips you read out there SOUND good at first, but you quickly realize just how ineffective they are when you actually try to use them.
I’m going to cover three of these bad dating tips for you here, and I’ll do my best to set the record straight so you never fall into one of these traps…
Bad Dating Tip #1: “Just Be Confident.”
Really? Are you kidding me?
I wish I was kidding about this, but it’s one of the most common
9 HABITS
After all, being successful with women is really only a perquisite of developing these traits. There are so many other benefits that come with constantly striving to be the best you can be.
If you want to be able to develop these traits and start using them as quickly as possible, I thought it would be useful to condense and summarize them for you in order to make it easier for you to create that laser-like focus in order to accomplish this.
If you want to be attractive to as many women as possible and create a life
CONFIDENCE
We all want to look self-assured and powerful to other people. Not to mention, we just want to feel confident enough to try new things and venture out of our claustrophobic comfort zone.
- What women would you approach if you had more confidence?
- What business opportunities would you seek if you had more confidence?
- What kind of hobbies would you try if confidence
MALE TRAITS
The definition of what makes a true man – the Alpha Male – has grown fuzzy over the past few decades. For some reason, traits that are considered manly have become confused with being a jerk.
I think it’s because of this that “manliness” has become taboo.
But I’m here to tell you that women want a manly man. They want a take-charge leader who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to go after it. Women repeatedly tell me that this is the biggest turn on.
What happens is that the world is constantly telling us
