CONFİDENCE

       CONFIDENCE     


We all want to look self-assured and powerful to other people. Not to mention, we just want to feel confident enough to try new things and venture out of our claustrophobic comfort zone.

- What women would you approach if you had more confidence?

- What business opportunities would you seek if you had more confidence?

- What kind of hobbies would you try if confidence

DATING FEARS

DATING FEARS


Did you know that both men and women have strong fears about throwing themselves in the dating arena? It’s not a battle to the death, but it can end up in heartache.
That’s why before you jump in head first it helps to follow a bit of dating advice for men.
I think a lot of men forget that women also have fears about dating. Just a little bit of understanding and acknowledging these fears can go a long way. Some of the best dating advice for men forget that women are afraid, as well.

TO TALK WOMEN MISTAKES

TO TALK WOMEN MISTAKES  

If you pay attention to these mistakes, you are going to shave a few months and several hours off your learning curve on how to talk to women. Read them, think about them and let them sink in and you will be a head above the rest of the leg humping guys out there trying to get the girl.


How To Talk To Women MISTAKE #1: Starting out as Friends.
For whatever reason, be it insecurity or fear of rejection or what have you, I see guy after guy thinking that starting out as “friends first” is the way to make a girl interested.
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I almost wonder if we men are embarrassed to show that we are interested or that we try to camouflage our interest as something else.

Sometimes it gave us the balls to go up to a woman by convincing ourselves and her that we were just walking up to talk to her on a friendship level and not hitting on her. I like to call this behavior motivated by the “fear of being found out.”

Have you ever asked the time as a way to approach a woman? Then when she answers, what do you say next? Not much. It doesn’t leave much room for conversation.

Here’s a little secret – when women say they want to be friends first, they want to see how you will react. If you get mad or frustrated, then the woman assumes you just wanted to have sex with her. But if you respond by showing you are confident and sexual, then you don’t come off as a wimp looking for her permission to be interested.

Trying to be friends first tells her you are insecure, needy, and not sure of your ability to make her happy as a man! It is approval-seeking behavior, which is NEVER attractive.

How To Talk To Women MISTAKE #2: Depending On A Pick Up Line

Too many men think that what they say for the first time to a woman is a make-or-break situation. In reality, the first thing you say is the last thing you need to worry about.

What does matter is your sincerity and believability in what you say.

In other words, it’s not what you say; it’s how you say it.

Here is one opener that is always successful because it is sincere and believable:

“Hi, I hope you don’t mind, but I don’t have a clever pickup line. I just wanted to come over and say hello. My name is …”

When you say this, you are telling her quite a few things about yourself. You are telling her that you know picking up women is a game and you are above that. You are telling her you have confidence and sincere and that you aren’t trying to con her.

How To Talk To Women #3: Not Learning From Your Mistakes

The men who are most successful with women are those who have taken the time to learn from their mistakes. I’ve learned a lot from what they have shared with me. 

One thing that surprised me was seeing these men who date loads of women crash and burn at times.

Even these pros still had times when they had to deal with rejection. But they didn’t have any fear of it.

They took it in stride. They knew what worked and what didn’t. They knew how to get women to talk to them and go home with them. But sometimes they struck out. 

During those times, they learned from what went wrong and moved on.

If you avoid these mistakes when learning how to talk to women, you are on your way to living the good life and dating amazing women.

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WOMEN APPROACH ANXIETY

     
                          Women Approach Anxinety   


There is hardly a man among us who hasn’t experienced some form of what we call “approach anxiety” in his life. It’s that fear of walking up to a woman and being shot down in your tracks.

It’s a normal fear but there are some concrete ways to stomp it out and take away any power it has over you and what you do. Ridding yourself of this anxiety will make approaching women feel natural and easy.

Let’s take a look at some of the realizations about approach anxiety that have freed me from its grip:

THE MOST MALE TRAITS

                   The Most Male Traits


     The definition of what makes a true man – the Alpha Male – has grown fuzzy over the past few decades. For some reason, traits that are considered manly have become confused with being a jerk.

    I think it’s because of this that “manliness” has become taboo.

    But I’m here to tell you that women want

KEEP CONVERSATION GOING

             Conversation Going  

     Here’s the bottom line: If you can’t keep a conversation going, you can’t be a badass with women. The good news is… with consistent effort and practice, you can master this skill. Don’t worry if you don’t have a natural “gift of gab.” With consistent effort and practice over time, you can get better results with women than your silver-tongued brethren. That’s because you’ve developed a core foundation of skills for any situation you’ll encounter.

     If you have multiple ways to sustain a conversation, it creates more curiosity in the mind of a woman. She’ll be thinking to herself: “I wonder what he’s gonna say next?” This keeps her guessing, and wards off the biggest enemy and attraction-killer for a woman: Boredom. You may not be “The Most Interesting Man In The World” from the Dos Equis commercials, but you’ll be a lot more interesting than most guys who don’t practice these conversation keys.

    Let’s get started – here are the top 5 ways

MAN KILL ATTRACTION

      What Are Men Kill Attractins  

  

    Just as important as knowing what to do in flirting and dating situations is knowing what not to do. You can follow every piece of good advice you get about how to act around women, but if you just add those to your repertoire and don’t weed out things that are dragging you down, you’re not going to see much success.

    1. Don’t talk in depth about past relationships

Mentioning your ex is okay if it’s applicable to the conversation but avoid getting into the past relationship conversation at all. Stay present! Do you want to hear about all her past lovers?! Neither does she!

    2. Don’t avoid eye contact 

Eye contact is the way humans connect. By avoiding eye contact, you are giving up one of the oldest signs

YOUR FEAR OF APPROACHING WOMEN

It’s natural for even the most confident man



 to be intimidated by approaching a woman    

 they find attractive. In fact, the very fact that

 they intimidate probably has something to do

 with your attraction to them. Here are five

simple ways to overcome the common fear

 that cripples many men on the dating scene

. It takes practice, but achieving the

 confidence to approach a woman with a

swagger and ask her out is something all

 men are capable of if they put their mind to it.

                                    1. Mayor walking

How do you usually walk down the street? Looking in shop windows or down at your feet, talking on your

cell phone or with headphones on? Try something different. Walk down a street in your town and say hi and

smile to everyone you meet. Greet people you recognize and exchange a few words. With strangers, just say

hi and give them a smile. There are no strings attached to this exercise. You will probably never see most of