Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts

Saturday, March 23, 2013

TIPS FOR INTROVERS



TIPS FOR INTROVERS 


Introverts often have a more difficult time with social interactions than others. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Just talking with other people can be a challenge for many introverts. It’s no surprise then that the thought of actually talking to someone who might be a future partner can send an introvert into a tailspin.



 PROFESSIONAL HELP !



Here are a few quick dating tips for the introvert that may help.

1. Fess up.

Don’t pretend to be a social butterfly. There is nothing wrong with being introverted. Tell your date if you are someone who seeks friendship first or needs time to fall in love. You may scare away a few flakes, and instead attract people who will really appreciate you.


2. Meet at places where you feel comfortable.

If you don’t like loud bars, don’t go there. Often introverts are also people-pleasers, and they will do what they think is asked of them even if they suffer. Find a place that makes you feel comfortable: a laid back coffee shop perhaps, or a park.


Also, consider taking your date out for a walk with your dog, or to meet with mutual friends. You’ll at least then have an ally who will be there for you whatever happens.

3. Avoid smooth talkers.

In a relationship, you need to be heard. If your date won’t allow you to get a word in edgewise,  it’s not the right person for you.

4. Look for subtle connections.

Sometimes we get so flooded by first impressions and things to look out for, it’s difficult to just feel what it’s like to sit with this person. Do you like being there? Or does it feel crowded, overwhelming, or make you nervous? Make sure you actually enjoy hanging out with your date.

5. Beware of takers.

Introverts are often givers. We listen, pay attention, and want to be there for the other. Make sure you get to be on the receiving end of the equation. If you have to ask repeatedly for romantic gestures or to be included, this is what you sign up for down the road.
 PROFESSIONAL HELP !

Sunday, March 10, 2013

MOST SPECTACULARLY BAD DATİNG TİPS


MOST SPECTACULARLY BAD DATING TIPS   


Over the 10+ years I’ve been a dating coach for men, I’ve heard some really incredibly BAD advice. On the surface most of the tips you read out there SOUND good at first, but you quickly realize just how ineffective they are when you actually try to use them.
I’m going to cover three of these bad dating tips for you here, and I’ll do my best to set the record straight so you never fall into one of these traps…


Bad Dating Tip #1: “Just Be Confident.”
Really? Are you kidding me?
I wish I was kidding about this, but it’s one of the most common

MEETING/5 TIPS


MEETING--5 TIPS     

When first meeting a woman or wanting to approach a woman you are interested in; you may feel uncertain about how she may react once making contact.  You might start debating in your mind about what to say to her and how she will react to what you say.


It is important to be relaxed and also be confident with what you will want to say to her.  If you worry about her rejecting you than she will probably reject you.   You have nothing to lose by initially approaching her and trying to communicate with her.






How to Talk to Women – TIP 1: “Don’t be Long-Winded.”

When first approaching a woman, you don’t want to talk too much and monopolize the entire conversation.  If the conversation is one-sided, you will bore her out of her mind.  The conversation should flow naturally between both of you.  Talking too much doesn’t leave her curious and wanting more from you.

There is no point in being long-winded anyway.  If you will be seeing her again, you want to have more to talk about with her the next time you meet.


Saturday, March 2, 2013

DATING TIPSS


DATING TIPS  
VİDEO !

Women all have different tastes in men. Some women like swarthy dark haired men while others prefer surfer blondes. Often women say they want a guy who is ambitious in pursing his career, while others want to date a down-and-out street musician.

There is no formula that you can follow that will make you successful in your dating endeavors, but there are some areas you can concentrate on that will help along the way. These are just a few of the dating tips for guys that are proven:


Have a Good Sense of Humor

Women love to laugh. Get a woman to laugh and her guard comes down and she has a chance to really get to know you. The ability to make her laugh, along with that crucial ability to laugh at yourself will make you a great date. This is why I put this as the first of the dating tips for guys.

Be Confident
VİDEO !
This is crucial. If you want to be a good date, you have to like yourself before you can expect anyone else to like you. If you have some insecurities, and the best of us do, then try faking it until you make it. Put on an attitude that you are confident and practice it until it becomes natural. (Meanwhile you should also be making efforts to improve your self-esteem.)

Be Positive

Nobody wants to be around a crabby, negative personality. Have a good attitude. So things don’t go your way on the date? Make the most of the situation. Not only is this one of the important dating tips for guys, but it will also improve your life in general to remember this bit of advice.

Be An Alpha Male

Monday, February 25, 2013

TO TALK TO GIRLS TIPS


TO TALK TO GIRLS TIPS  

VİDEO ! She’s hot and she likes you. You’re fun and the one she calls when she wants to go get a last-minute drink or go dancing at midnight. She confides everything to you. 

She’s cried into your sleeve about her abusive ex-boyfriend and how she has such a hard time trusting men now. You’re falling for her big time.

But there’s one big problem. You’ve never even exchanged a kiss. You’ve hugged and she’s even slept over in your bed one night when it got really late.

You might wonder when you should make your move or if she is waiting for you to kiss her. She’s not. Face it, my friend, you are firmly entrenched in that dangerous territory called The Friend Zone.

Saturday, February 23, 2013

GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDİNG WOMEN



GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING WOMEN  


This is your guide to understanding women. A little bit of understanding goes a long way. Most men are completely clueless about how women work and what they want. 

With a little bit of understanding about what makes the fairer sex tick, you will be ahead of the game and stand out from the crowd.

I’m going to share with you a few tips on dating that will give you greater understanding of women and help you attract women a lot easier.

Guide To Understanding Women – Secret Strategy 1: Build up excitement and curiosity before you get close with her.


To create a really strong spark of attraction, you need to get the woman to feel excited and curious about you. If you don’t take the time to create these feelings, she’s going to consider you her new BFF instead of her lover.

It is less important to find out what you have in common and more crucial to create that spark of attraction by knowing how to flirt, play with the conversation and tease her. Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve or you are doomed from the get go.

Saturday, February 16, 2013

SECRET STRATEGIES



               SECRET STRATEGIES      

Despite what you might think, most men who are successful in pulling the ladies were not born with this ability. Sure, some of them were born with good looks – which definitely can help. And others were raised in such a way that they exude self-confidence, which is always a plus. But most guys have learned tips and techniques that help them in attracting women. Here are just a few that are easy to learn and practice and will quickly improve your ability to meet and attract women.


Eye Contact

Have you heard about women who talk about love at first sight? It’s that look across the room

Friday, February 15, 2013

DATING TIPS


DATİNG TIPS       


Women all have different tastes in men. Some women like swarthy dark haired men while others prefer surfer blondes. Often women say they want a guy who is ambitious in pursing his career, while others want to date a down-and-out street musician.
VİDEO ! There is no formula that you can follow that will make you successful in your dating endeavors, but there are some areas you can concentrate on that will help along the way. These are just a few of the dating tips for guys that are proven:


Have a Good Sense of Humor

Women love to laugh. Get a woman to laugh and her guard comes down and she has a chance to really get to know you. The ability to make her laugh, along with that crucial ability to laugh at yourself will make you a great date. This is why I put this as the first

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

THE MOST MALE TRAITS




                   The Most Male Traits


     The definition of what makes a true man – the Alpha Male – has grown fuzzy over the past few decades. For some reason, traits that are considered manly have become confused with being a jerk.

    I think it’s because of this that “manliness” has become taboo.

    But I’m here to tell you that women want

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

KEEP CONVERSATION GOING



             Conversation Going  


     Here’s the bottom line: If you can’t keep a conversation going, you can’t be a badass with women. The good news is… with consistent effort and practice, you can master this skill. Don’t worry if you don’t have a natural “gift of gab.” With consistent effort and practice over time, you can get better results with women than your silver-tongued brethren. That’s because you’ve developed a core foundation of skills for any situation you’ll encounter.

     If you have multiple ways to sustain a conversation, it creates more curiosity in the mind of a woman. She’ll be thinking to herself: “I wonder what he’s gonna say next?” This keeps her guessing, and wards off the biggest enemy and attraction-killer for a woman: Boredom. You may not be “The Most Interesting Man In The World” from the Dos Equis commercials, but you’ll be a lot more interesting than most guys who don’t practice these conversation keys.

    Let’s get started – here are the top 5 ways

Monday, February 11, 2013

PASS WOMEN'S CONGRUENCE TEST




People sees women as riding a constant

  emotional roller coaster. Men are        

 afraid of women they see with this 


sort of inconsistency, but what they

 don’t realize is that some women

 portray themselves as more flighty

Sunday, February 10, 2013

THE BEST CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN


Here are the top 5 ways to keep a conversation going:


1. Ask genuine, non-threatening questions


Most women are wary of PUA games,              

tactics or weird language from guys. 

If you try any of these tricks and they

 aren’t congruent with your personality,

 at the best you’re probably off to a bad start

5 TIPS NOT GET REJECTED



In the game of love, everyone is rejected at


some point. Of course, knowing exactly why      

 you’ve been turned down isn’t always

 clear and if you don’t know what you did

 wrong, how can you improve your chances?

 Luckily, you aren’t the first man to be turned

 down. As long as men have been chasing