THE BEST CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN

Here are the top 5 ways to keep a conversation going:


1. Ask genuine, non-threatening questions

Most women are wary of PUA games,              

tactics or weird language from guys. 

If you try any of these tricks and they

 aren’t congruent with your personality,

 at the best you’re probably off to a bad start


 – and at the worst, she’s mentally blown you 

off. The best way to set yourself apart from

 other guys is to ask authentic questions… without an agenda or hidden motive. A woman needs to 

trust and feel safe around you before she’s willing to spend more time in a conversation. Real 

badasses don’t rely on canned lines, they have the confidence to express genuine opinions and 

questions.

2. Observe and be perceptive

When you get in the habit of paying attention to your surroundings – people, places and things – 

you’ll almost never run out of things to say. It’s a rare man who actually does this, and it’s a very 

attractive trait to women. Just make sure whatever you say is accurate and genuine, and you don’t 

have an agenda behind it. Women have built-in, finely-tuned BS detectors, and if she feels you’re 

not being truthful with her (or you’re saying something just to get her into bed)… it’s game over, 

and you’re done.

3. Don’t let her see you sweat, keep it light

Most women spend a lot of time worrying about any number of topics. A guy who can keep her 

mind off the worries of the world is someone she’ll want to spend more time with. Big-screen 

badasses like Clint Eastwood, Sylvester Stallone or John Wayne never looked worried, and were 

able to handle whatever situations that came up. And they added an occasional dose of good 

humor to show they were in control. A woman will follow your social lead, based on how you come 

across and make her feel. Women like being around guys who make them feel safe and secure – 

and you can do this by staying calm, cool and relaxed.

4. Be an active listener

One of the best ways to keep a conversation going isn’t by being the smoothest talker, or 

monopolizing the conversation – but instead, being the best listener. This may not come easily or 

naturally to you at first – especially if you’re an extrovert, or are nervous in social situations. Even 

if you have to bite your tongue waiting for someone to finish their thought or ideas, do it. People 

like other people who let them talk, and women will respect and appreciate you more. When you 

practice being an active listener, you’ll become more relaxed in all social situations.

5. Stay “present” and in the moment

As guys, we think about a lot of things: The idiot that cut us off in traffic… what time tonight’s 

game starts… or what band is playing this weekend – and we don’t focus on the person or situation 

right in front of us. We tend to be “up in our head,” or nervous, thinking about what has or might 

happen – or what an attractive woman might think of us. This mental chatter prevents you from 

being truly focused on the person or conversation at hand. For women it’s called being “present,” 

and it’s absolutely HUGE.

A female friend of mine said: “Being present is EVERYTHING.” This means you’re truly 

engaged in a conversation, contributing and giving genuine feedback. You aren’t nodding like a 

bobble head doll, or mindlessly saying “uh-huh” or “yeah” every so often. Women aren’t fooled at 

all when you do this. You’ll appear lazy or apathetic, and she definitely won’t think you’re a 

badass.

Like anything, you’ll have to put in time and effort to develop this skill – but the payoff in better 

business and personal relationships is HUGE. It’s the social equivalent of hitting a million-dollar 

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