Sunday, February 10, 2013

5 TIPS NOT GET REJECTED



In the game of love, everyone is rejected at


some point. Of course, knowing exactly why      

 you’ve been turned down isn’t always

 clear and if you don’t know what you did

 wrong, how can you improve your chances?

 Luckily, you aren’t the first man to be turned

 down. As long as men have been chasing


 women, they’ve been being turned down.

 Why? For starters, the way a man

 presents himself is key to attracting a

 woman’s attention, and it’s something

 most men overlook. Most men think

that the clothes they wear or how much

 money they have is what is primarily

 going to attract women, but it is

 actually much simpler than that. You

 are not the problem; the way you

 present yourself is. You can improve your odds in the dating game and finally feel like you know what

you’re doing by simply addressing the most common mistakes.

1. Understanding Body Language

While it’s true that confidence is something women find sexy, it takes more than boasting and flirting to

portray that you are comfortable in yourself. Body language is key. You want to show your prospective date

that you feel good in your own skin and feel in control of the situation. Stand up straight and make eye

contact. Humans communicate primarily through body language; your words will mean next to nothing if you

present yourself in an alluring way. But remember: Women can often tell if you are actually confident in

yourself or just faking. Work on your self esteem and approach women with an air of ease for best results.

2. Matching Energy and Atmosphere

Society tells us that a man should be solemn and serious, a grounding, powerful force, but women want

someone they can connect with. Before asking a woman out, gauge her energy levels and the general

atmosphere of the people around her. A woman is going to want you to meet her on her level: Be charming

and attentive but always note her reactions so you can adjust your approach. Make it hard for her to turn

you down by engaging her and showing her that you can understand her body language and meet her needs

and wants.

3. Choosing Positive Body Language

Here we go again with the body language. Yes, it’s really that important. Dating and flirting are just

evolution’s way of helping two people determine if they are right for each other. Those basic instincts from

hundreds of thousands of years ago are still alive in us. Facing a woman head on will make her feel

confronted and uncomfortable. A successful man makes a woman see he is powerful enough to keep her

safe and gentle enough to protect her. Practice embodying confidence without aggressiveness.

4. Walking the Thin Line Between Too Much and Too Little

Since being socially appropriate is always a must in dating situations, knowing just how confident and

assertive to be is a conundrum for many men. Being loud and obnoxious won’t gain you the attention you

seek and neither will sneaking into their social circle and waiting for her to notice you. There’s a balance

between these extremes. Harness your true confidence, address her with interest but don’t be overbearing.

You want to appear highly interested, not obsessed or desperate.

5. Committing to Your Mission

You will not get a yes from your prospective date if you have decided ahead of time that she will never say

yes. You will also not get a yes from her if you walk into the situation eager to get out of it. If you really want

to go out with this lady, you’re going to, at some point, spend time with her. Go into the situation with the

mindset of wanting to know more about her and asking her out if things go well. Harness your confidence,

remind yourself that the way you portray yourself is key, and be prepared to stay in the interaction until it has

come to its natural conclusion.

Don’t run away. Whether she answers yes or no, sprinting away from her to hide behind the nearest curtain

isn’t going to comfort her about her decision to say yes or inspire her to change her answer from no.

If you have gotten rejected a lot in the past, it’s likely you are trying to exact same approach over and over

and expecting different results. Change it up a little. Try something new. Think about what your body

language is communicating about yourself and the way your prospective date’s body language is asking you

to connect with her. Stick with your original mission. Stay confident. And remember: You are an eligible

bachelor; it’s the way that you present yourself that turns women away.
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