MAKE WOMEN APPROACH YOU

               To Make Women Approach You     

Too many, regardless of the number. If you’re a man

who plays the suave card and makes a point of

presenting a detached, aloof air, you’ll know all too

well that your technique most often requires women

to

approach you instead of the other way around. To

maintain your hip posture and still get dates, just make


yourself known among everyone at the party or bar that you are at. It’s as simple as that. Once you are no

longer socially mysterious, women can approach you with confidence.

     1. Be on the move

Looking like you’ve got some place to be will help you move around the room and meet all who have

arrived. Act as though you are hosting a party: there is always something to be checked on, somewhere to

be, someone to greet. A casual greeting or a flirtatious joke with everyone you meet will make you well

known throughout the room and easier to approach.

        2. Keep yourself likable

Being gregarious can be obnoxious if not done correctly. Make sure you are proceeding with respect for

each party you encounter and that your aim is to make sure you and everyone else is having a good time. If

you arrive early in the evening, build up a rapport with the staff. Later on, they’ll remember your friendliness

and the favors they toss you will be appreciated by all the patrons and attributed to your social prowess.
 
     3. Find an advantageous location

It might seem foolish, but simply consciously choosing where you spend most of your time standing in the bar

can make or break your social status. You want to be the friendly guy that everyone recognizes and likes by

the end of the night. You can do this while maintaining your sexy charisma and, soon, the women who have

had their eye on you all night will finally feel comfortable enough to approach you.
 
     4. Talk to everyone

Remember that your goal is to be well known throughout the bar or party, regardless of whether there are

groups or people who you usually wouldn’t talk to or would even actively avoid. Talk to anyone and

everyone. While you might think the lady in the red dress is smokin’ and will never even notice you, if you

are gregarious it is likely she will find you equally attractive and yet unapproachable. The key here is to

demonstrate that while you are friendly, boisterous and hot, you aren’t elitist or snobby. Look too cool for

school but make sure you include everyone in your rounds so that the women you have your eye on feels you

are approachable.

     5. Make your appearance notable

All the running around and greeting and socializing in the world won’t get you truly noticed if your

appearance blends in. You want everyone to notice you and you want everyone to recognize you easily.

Don’t go overboard: stay within your comfort zone fashion-wise and pick an outfit that suits and

communicates your personality. Play up your good features. Maybe dress a little more formally than

everyone else will be dressed so you look sexy and stand out from the pack just a little.

The most important thing you will need to become the life of the party is confidence in the spotlight. Whether

you need a few practice runs to get into your groove or a few shots to set you on fire, once you are on you

need to be ON. Done right, with confidence, swagger and friendliness, every woman in the room will want

you. Then, of course, all you have to do is take your pick.

Play the game: Once you have gotten the attention of women in the room, flirt to build tension and make

them want you more. Keep up your rounds and your gregarious personality, making sure to send a few

favors when you have them to the particular woman you are interested in. If there’s not one woman in

particular, don’t sweat it. You’ve got the social sway to keep a few women going. Enjoy your brief celebrity

status as the go-to guy for curious partiers and the next big thing for all the single ladies.